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Confused about if I should stay with my boyfriend.?

hi im 19 and my boyfriend is about to be 20 on may 28th. we've been together for a year and 8 months but I have a problem. HES LAZY. he doesn't own a phone so I give him mine to use when I leave so I can get ahold of him. I ask him to go job hunting but when he says he will he just sleeps all day and smokes weed the rest of the day. hes constantly with his friends everyday. I'm constantly fighting with him and trying to push to him to have a better life but hes all talk no action. once his friends call he's out that door and it makes me so mad that his friends blow up my phone to chill with him. they call at 3 in the morning sometimes and will call 10 times intil someone picks up. I honestly don't know if I should try harder for my boyfriend or should I just give up on him and move on? what should I do?

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seems you already cemented your situation when the two of you moved in together and he gives you money and you accept it. He knows you are vulnerable because you have no place to go and can't work. So you are speaking to us from a vulnerable place. If you wanted to get out now what would it take? You say he doesn't flirt or cheat and I'd be wondering just what his persuasion is. If you can't get out or don't have the transportation or the money to do so then you can never have the opportunity to find out what this guy is all about. I'd be wondering too why you love him. Anyway, everyone has baggage, everyone has stuff they do that the other doesn't like, but if you really knew him would you still want him? Have you talked with any of his relatives and friends about him as a person like what kind of person he is like, was he married before, who knows him from the past? And if you found out and decided to leave where would you go (to which relative) and how would you pay for yourself? Are you on food stamps? Are you on SS disability? Can you work online or have your own business? And why haven't you started that already?
Sorry, from what I read, you cannot really do anything. Did they call the cops? Did they announce over the loud speaker that you were fired for stealing? Lawsuits are designed to help make people whole for another party taking something from them. How were you damaged? Monetarily? Can you prove it? Many states have Hire at will laws where you can be terminated with NO just cause. There is no law here in Minnesota that reads wrongful termination. The only context is used when laws are broken like EEO or affirmative action.
Yes they will. Just be sure to cut the pipe very straight and ensure a good grab from the shark-bite. I have used them on 3/4 poly piping and have had good results. Good luck

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