It's probably too expensive to add in the factory parts. I would add aftermarket parts, especially for the sound system because you will get a much better quality for less than the cost of the bose.
Not easily, since those items come as part of the premium package. The Bose system comes with a separate amp wired in the trunk plus two woofers on the rear deck, so you'd have to run new wiring and install rear deck woofers. The auto lights require a different switch, and perhaps a different Body Control Module (BCM). I looked in the Field Service Manual, and while I don't see a section that indicates whether the BCM for the auto lights is different for different option packages, it does show the BCM as controlling the auto light function.
