for one year and going to school at the same time, my husbands sister who has been a stay at home mom for seven years, with only one child, plus she has a brand new home and car,her huband works 24/7. I think she is a free loader, but w I told my husband that before he speaks he shoud take into consideration his sister, he called me jealeous.
Your husband forgot how much you worth. Tell him to hire a cook, a maid and a babysitter to do all household work, that's would cost him a fortune. But you can't compare with your sister-in-law, as she chose a different person. Be happy with what you have.
Sounds like he was out of line. We all say some hurt full things in the heat of an augment. Hopefully he will apologize for his comments and everything will get back to normal.
I don't have to serve him but seeing as how I enjoy doing so for him, I do serve him his meals. He works hard so that I can be a stay at home mom and he has to go to work even when he's tired so I would never use that excuse (being too tired) as to why I didn't do something I normally did.
I don't know what you two were arguing about, but that was pretty tacky and you have every right to be hurt. I find that a lot of times when men argue they just pull something out of their a** to get you off their case at that time or take a potshot at you and get you focusing/doubting/defending yourself so they can slither away from the argument. He probably didn't mean it, but I'd still be giving him the frosty treatment for a few days and I bet he will try and do something to make it up to you. I really doubt that he spent all this time with someone whom he really considers a freeloader cause that would make him a moron - something I doubt he wants to be or considers himself to be so.. whatever.
how could you be a free loader when you are taking care of the baby?i don't know why people have such low opinions of stay-at-home moms like it's not a job (24/7 )if you look at it.no pay,no vacations,no sick pay,no appreciation,no clocking out or anything,tell him you're get a job gladly so you can get a day off at least.
