Have you ever used a fire extinguisher?
80% of lesbians, gay and bisexual youth reported servere isolation problems. They experienced social isolation, emotional isolation and cognitive isolation.
Most of your questions I can answer all at once: Wicca is not about using the right color or item. None of that stuff is required. They are tools: we generally find them helpful, and thus we use them. The importance is what these things represent to YOU. Physical fire is not the same as the element of fire. Thus, a burning candle is a symbol. If you can't use candles, find another symbol that works for you. Do colors matter?
