THE FACTS: i love him alot. he's sixteen. im a little younger. he loves me, but doesn't tend to show it when he is around other girls. we are not boyfriend and girlfriend. THE STORY: the other night him and a couple of mates where out at a campout with a few girls. half way through the night, him and one of the girls got off. then they went for a walk in the woods, and know ones knows what happened from there. he has done this before and it just crushes me. im so jealous as well! help me please?! Xx
Well, if he's done it before, then you know what he's about. If that's the type of guy you like, and you want his attention, all you have to do is join the other girls in line and wait your turn. If, on the other hand, you want a guy who will love and respect you, don't be one of those girls and don't chase after guys like him. You show the immaturity of your age by professing your love for a guy who clearly has no respect for your feelings and refuses to publicly declare his love for you. You are not ready to be in a loving relationship with a guy since you are unable to recognize when you are being played. Use this as a learning experience to know exactly what type of guy to avoid in the future if you want respect. Date casually, without falling in love, so you can learn the different types of guys who are out there and find out which are the ones who will treat you right and who are worth your time and affection.