If a spaceship were headed straight for the sun, how close could it get before it was incinerated?
Do you mean the resistors that control blower fan speed? Most resistors for this are either integral to the HVAC control assembly (the part with all the knobs) or there is a module attached to the blower motor itself. For specifics, you'll probably need a service manual of some sort to show exactly where it is.
it's all personal. I grew up being raised as a house wife and a proper lady as my mother and grandmother would say. I was not really raised for the way the modern world works.. (btw i don;t think you're an improper lady if you work lol) The idea of not being a SAHM is not even something i thought about. I of course am willing 100% to get a part time job if need be., but my primary role in this household will always be a SAHM/W. however. if you feel at your best working, then that is of course what you should do. It is always quality before quantity.. if you are your best mother when you work rather than being home 24/7.. then you should do it that way. I do however want to point out that I also believe children should have/do chores. your husband should respect your decision.