lights on or lights off when ur in bed with someone doin the nasty? i prefer lights on but sometimes when the lights are off it's like ur blindfolded and it adds to the excitement!!! feel ur way around with ur hands!!!
Doesn't make one iota of difference. Lights off is just more of an excuse to somewhere you're not supposed to. Usually.
Both! Just don't get the clapper because the lights come on and off to the point where the neighbors want to know what's going on and knock on the door.
I like the lights off, but I like the candles lit. Nothing kills my mood more than a 100 watt bulb shining from overhead right in my eyes. But the nice warm glow of the candle on my husband's skin and the flames flickering on the walls...that gets me purring.
Easy...BOTH...I want the lights on when she is watching me have my way with her. I want her to see me when she is on her hands and knees in front of a mirror and I'm behind her and reminding her who's @ss that belongs to. Let her see the whole picture of the nasty that's being taken. Lights off when she is being taken at 4am out of a dead sleep. Let her just feel her way through it all. She can only wonder what is happening next while she is tied to the bedpost. It's quiet and she knows she cannot do anything, she can feel your tongue touch her, but has no idea where it will land next..gotta love it Nothing better than rough sex in the dark....or light...LOL
I pay my little brother a dollar an hour to stand at the lightswitch and flick it on and off. Kinda like a strobelight. 8-)