ok, so i know overheating a colored glass bowl to the point that it boils the resin is bad. But how baad is it when you see that some of the paint is burnt as well :o?!
The man may have had to give up some land for what is called public domain. Call City Hall, find out if this is the case. If the authorities took the land for the better of the public, or whatever, then he does not actually own , or have any right to it than anybody else. He might just be harassing, and know it. Find out, officially, who owns the road. Is there a county road sign there? It should be marked, but I think you want to use the road, so find out, for sure, who owns it.
Treating the symptoms is not a cure. You'll never stop him for getting to his porn.
Okay so dads a little flakey. I wouldnt call him weird either. Me? I dont do it and never did it myself because I dont get it. Maybe its all that keeps them together, who knows. Put up with it a while longer but dont hold it against him. Ive seen worse like guys blowing their paycheck at topless bars or gambling or even drugs. Ok its his thing and leave it alone. One thing I do know is that you will never put up with it from your someday husband.
I seriously think you need to realize that your own maturity is probably the problem. He may be your dad, but he's also a grown man. Sorry to break this to you, but your mother probably has a lot of sexual fantasies as well. Women just tend to use their imagination instead of porn.
Inform him about the addiction aspect of it, he may even want to stop but can't by his own will power. This is a very serious issue here. There are informative videos on YouTube concerning this.