spending the weekend in front of a fire with that special someone, a blanket, some good movies and some strawberries and champagne?
Do you change the whole bed? or do you have a pad or something like that? Is the mattress getting wet from the urine? If your mattress is getting wet, you really need to deep clean it. With a shampooer like vaccuum. Something you can suck out the old waste as you apply clean water and cleanser. Then make sure you dry it, with a hair dryer or fan. Spray it with a disinfected. Dry it again. Apply Baking Soda, rub it in. Vaccuum it out. That should do it. After you go through all of that work. Purchase the will absorb the urine, and it would get to your mattress. When my daughter use to wet the bed, I made her bed like normal. Then a purchase a wet pad for a crib. Folded it in half, placed it on top of the fitted sheet, covered it with a folded blanket, and she slept on that. If she wet, then all I would have to wash was the pad and the blanket, no more washing all of the bedding.
I would leave a note under my bed saying hi dad, if you are looking for something specific, just ask, like a grown up Shame him into coming to you everyone deserves privacy and respect unless you have given him cause to mistrust you
sounds like you re shocks are bad not holding the tire to the road not sure if it has shocks or struts but they are bad