The teapot and teacup, who would have said
A young man was deeply disappointed all the way to the famen temple, the abbot of release round the monk said: "I want to learn and undivided attention but has not found a teacher to my satisfaction. Many people are figure with a false reputation, some painting is not as good as me." Release round to listen to, smile said: "the old monk, although not understand painters, but also love to collect some famous high-quality goods. Since benefactor painting not as inferior as those masters, just kindly benefactor leave a calligraphy for the old monk." The young man asked: "what?" Release round said: "the old monk's biggest hobby, is love tea, especially like the modelling elegant simplicity of the tea set. Donor can you draw a cup for me and a teapot?" Young people listen to, say: "this is not easy?" Then rolled out of rice paper, a few pen, just as a tilting kettle and a modelling elegant tea cups. The spout of the kettle is slowly out of a tea, into the cup. Young man asked: "this picture you satisfied?" Release round smiled and shook his head. Say: "you is good at drawing, just put the position of the teapot and teacup is wrong, should be on the cups, teapot in ah." Young people listen to, say with smile: "the master is so confused, which have a cup of water into the teapot?" Release round to listen to, say: "originally you understand this truth. You want to own the cup into the master painters of the chance, but you always put your own cup to put even more than the teapot, how can the chance into your cup? Jian valley to lower yourself, to get a pulse water; only lets himself low, can absorb the wisdom and experience of others."
The second is economic level. In China, historically, in addition to the matriarchal society, always men, tying the; Men earn money, women at home. After the founding of new China, has been singing the equality between men and women, in fact not go inside, just on the surface of Shouting. Have you noticed, also is an office worker, buy and cook take child or a woman, a man or a course not into the kitchen. Even into the kitchen, cooking cooking, but always get the praise, it's good to the man, with his wife is very good; Who is because women cook cook said a woman? Is that a woman should do, have what good praise? In fact that is a man for the family, even women in money!!! For this reason, always feel is a man in supporting the economic, so the man has the right to match the cup! Three is the point man in prey. Regardless of the rich man and not rich man, you have to ask he would like to have two or more women? Don't think I would not, may I say a little paranoid, but whether it is not a joke, man even think it should be a woman for a lifetime, he would easily agree with this statement, why? He was afraid of people laugh at him, smile he is not a man, because men have little prey: is that what is how many women a man? Some men of your outer crispy noodles day hu, but hope his wife will always be that man waiting for him at home; To some extent, the woman is very sad, several of these reasons, has settled into a woman's heart, in most women heart, a man or a rely on, though often is a man to rely on her. A man proud, to position, the man to image... Women also like tea, quietly around the teapot, seem to be giving, who see it happy to give you!
The teapot and teacup Recently always hear the relationship between a man and a woman is like teacups and teapots, mean man is a teapot, a woman is a cup, a man can match a few women, just like the teapot and teacup. Today suddenly have friends also spoke to the teapot and teacup, remember I also agree with, but I ask, why women can't is the teapot? He and I talked a lot about the teapot and teacup, and him a lot of examples that are around, let me by surprise, case, of course, women are cups. Why women are cups, always cup? I think there are a few reasons: one is the cultural level. In how many years of Chinese culture, men always strong, woman is always the weak; Man always predator, women will always be the predator; Men always active, women are always passive. In such cultures, women as a teacup is taken for granted, even women will be appointed. China's long history, is a wu zetian as a teapot, it is a let a man agrees the teapot.
