Title sums it up. But give me detail, like what color of coat or breeches or what style of gloves, and should I wear a little pin on my shirt for hunt? For western I really don't know much on apparel for that. So please give me some details. Thanks a bunch!
Not necessarily. While some look upon this as a mark of a can't do employee, the fact remains that you're already thought well of. Turning it down for personal reasons is legit and most (except those that hate families) will understand. The loss will be that such a chance may not come up again. You might be stuck in your position longer than you wished. And you might see others, with less experience, promoted above you. It's all about choices. If you're happy with your job and are willing to offset lost chances by having a stable family life, then stick with it.
you could either match colors or reverse them, but yeah it would be cute to match them