ok here one for u at the age of 3 what time the go to bed , i say 9 pm what u thank.
WHOA!! 9 is way to late. When I was that age, I went to bed at 8-8:30. Kids should be getting at the very least 9 hours of sleep a night. If you're putting your kids to bed at 9 NOW, then what's going to happen at parties? when you go to dinner? Or what happens when your child turns 6 and wants to stay up LATER? There goes your life! Children need sleep. 8:00 is a good time.
I think for a 3 year old it should be between 8 and 9. But it depends on when you need the tot to wake up.
I always put my son to bed at 8. He sleeps so much better through the night if we stick to a routine so I give him a bath at about 7:30 and then take him to bed.
I am 13 and at the age of 3 I went to bed at 7! (I went to bed at 7 till the age of 7)
I have a 15mo/o, she goes to bed between 7-7:30, a 4 y/o who goes to bed about 8:00 and a 6 y/o who goes to bed about 9:00. She's our challenge. We have tried 8:00 with her but she was just never ready. 9:00 works the best. Some children don't need that much sleep to function. While others do. If your 3 y/o goes to bed at 9 and gets up at 7-8, then I don't see why 9 doesn't work. It all depends on what works for YOUR family.