btwn a fat and non pretty girl and a nagging critical spirit crusher type, who is the bigger turn off for men?
no to any type of spirit crusher.
The fact being that personality means the most to me with a person, and someone who definitely cares about others the latter part of your question seems to be the biggest turnoff for me. That being said I guess the description of both would have to be assessed when people meet you. I would work on both to increase your self-esteem. Diet, exercise, makeup, and change your attitude. I hope all of my suggestions are not offensive in my scope to help.....
That's not fair. The Nagging Critical Spirit crusher is one of my favorite women, because they make every day a challenge. They're just not great women for the nicer guys.
Your worst quality is your negative opinion of yourself! You say your not pretty- By whose standards? Also fat- Some guys like bigger women. Now if your a nag, critical spirit crusher type, you may want to work on those things which will most likely help with the way you feel about yourself. Maybe because you don't think very highly of yourself you have developed these traits as a coping mechanism. Love yourself honey otherwise no one else will. By the way the biggest turn of for a man is a woman who is ashamed of herself that shows no confidence. See it's not really about how others view you it's about how you view yourself!
Well, both are pretty bad. I couldnt date either.
