I'm a 29 year old healthy male. I'm married to a very sexy woman whom I'm very attracted to. For the past couple of months I've been watching porn in secret ad jacking off. I never used lube or anything. During this I was still able to have sex with my wife. But 2 nights ago me and my wife were doing it and I coulden't ejaculate no matter what. The only thing I could do was finish myself with my hand. My wife was suspicious so I admitted to the pornography. She was annoyed but she's worried about me not finishing. When we use lube I hardly get any sensation, and when I'm inside her it feels like there's not enough friction and I'm not able to quot;shootquot;. Do I need medicine, or will this decrease over time. How sk I get used to lubricant?
If you quit masterbating so much you'll get the sensation back. You could also start using lube when you are by yourself.
that's not normal dude. are you sure you really like chicks? maybe you're gay and don't know it yet. when you watch porn, do you get more excited watching the chick, or the dude she's with?
If you have occassional problems having an orgasm then this is nothing to worry about. It can happen for no particular reason and will probably pass. If you wife is getting wet anyway why use lube? Try different positions to see if they stimulate you more.
