I bought some ties from a department store and they have creases from how they were folded.Can you get the creases out with an iron?
You definitely are a heterosexual. Meaning, you care a lot about your looks. Women that obsess about it, tend to be very superficial. It's not necessary to go through all the stuff you're doing. I am a woman, and trust me. Instead of spending 1000 hours a day on all that extra stuff, start spending time at the gym. If you get buff, women will DEFINITELY appreciate it. Not many women are attracted to very skinny men, simply because naturally we want to be protected (I'm not sure if you've taken biology). Spend time at the gym, of course look nice Showering 2x a day isn't necessary, unless you work out. Dressing up ALL the time, is a little weird. It shows you care a lot about looks, you should just wear normal clothes at least half the week. Otherwise, at least to me. You'll come off uptight. It's alright if your shoes are a little dirty ;) especially if you got the muscles.
Here is a travel tip that I use. roll your ties rather than fold them. If you don't have any luck with the iron, try leaving them in a roll for a bit. Also, to iron, iron the BACK of the tie so you don't sear the fabric. Good luck!
Iron with it on the lowest heat, better still, don't iron directly onto the tie. Put something over it like a cotton cloth and iron that with the tie underneath.