Every time i look it up it always leaves the privte spots out .So I was wondering when do you wash them before everything or last or in between ??
istinja before anythign else washing the private area first then the rest of the wudhu but thank oyu for asking as this may have aslo been a question sommeon esle may wanted to ask but sometimes feel embarasewed but there is no shame in leaning new knowlegde
OK here it is :) The proper way of making ablution is as follow: First of all recite the Name of Allah and then wash your palms thrice, then rinse your mouth thrice, then wash your nose thrice by sniffing water in it and then blowing it out; then wash you face thrice (right side to left), then wash your right forearm (after it the left forearm) up to the elbow thrice, then rub your head once with water using both hands starting with the front of your head, then move to the back, and then return your hands to the front, then using your fingers wipe the interior and exterior portions of your ears and then wash your feet thrice (the right foot first). This is the perfect way of Wudu narrated in Bukhari Muslim and other books of Hadith. It is also permissible to wash the organs of Wudu once or twice as proved in Bukhari. After completing Wudu one should say this Dua'. ('I bear witness that none has the right to be worshipped except Allah, alone, without partner, and I bear witness that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger. O Allah, make me of those who return to You often in repentance and make me of those who remain clean and pure'.) This is an authentic Dua' the Prophet said: Everyone who makes complete Wudu and then supplicate by saying this Dua', eight doors of the Paradise would be opened to him and he will enter from the door he likes. Rest Allah knows the best.~! Edit: sorry sis, not in Arabic,,,may be Arokia ( sorry for the spelling mistake but the sister below me) could email it to u :)
before performing the wudo of visible parts u have to clean ur private parts too with water. just take water and with ur left hand thoroughly wash ur anus and vagina. try to wash it inner area too. wash ur vagina by opening the lips and run proper water to wash the inner area with ur fingers. this applies to men too. they have to wash their penis and anus properly with water.
If you think you are unclean, take a shower, then partake in wudu, this will ensure that you will not feel doubtful if you are not clean. Then carry on with the normal method with intention in you heart. peace x