if you park next to a fire hydrant, is your car towed or do you get a ticket?
you have already forgiven him more than once. You mentioned that the last time he promised to change in front of your whole family. Try this one last time if you see that he is really working on it. Meanwhile block your computer (parental control) therefore he won't be able to access such sites. Now there's a question that only you can answer and is are you willing to give him this chance and try to make it work again?? If the answer is NO and you realize that no matter what he's doing now you can't trust him again then you need to have a talk with him and let him know. Remember it's not what other people want you to do it's what you want and think is best. You have a son and he doesn't deserve to be in the middle of a relationship that has no trust/love neither do you. Good luck on your decision
You have stated your postition clearly and the ball is in his court. There is nothing you can do for him, about him etc The only thing you can control is how you handle the situation. He is definitely dissing you by having cyber sex. It's as bad as an affair (in my opinion). You need to see if you can live with this kind of crap or not then make your next move. I feel so damn sorry for you. There are actually guys out there who do play it straight, who love and respect their women and who do not muck around having cyber sex or affairs. You could try couples therapy. Whatever you do, hold your own. If you let your man's behaviour dictate how you feel you are in for the worst time because he is behaving really badly.
ProbablyIn April 2007, there was a fire on the 7/8 floor of the MBK Center, an apparent grease fire that apparent smoke on the 7th or 8th floor. I was on the 6th floor when it was happening, I noticed many people walking swiftly down the escalators. Alarm? NO, I walked down to the 5th floor and 4th floor, when I noticed smoke accumulating at the ceiling above. Still no alarm. I chose to walk down the stairs in the parking structure from there. Stopped at 2nd floor walked through the mall to the skywalk. Then I heard the fire trucks. Total time around 15 minutes. I was reading there was a fire in a hotel in Bangkok recently. The problem is in the system and the culture. The Thai like many asians are not alarmists. I am an american born japanese. I watched in my parents, I watch it in the news. When the earthquake hit Fukushima, the japanese government was blindsided by the event. No information came out for HOURS. Same with the flooding last year in Thailand. The government was well aware of the problem. Yet, they played down the problem. In some cases, let the people suffer for the benefit of tourism. Remember hearing about the residents north of the Don Muang airport blowing up the dams that kept their area flooded. In general it is safe. People panic, they are still investigating the fire in Bangkok. When I visit any hotel, like in a plane I look for the fire exits. I check the condition of the electrical. Keep in mind technically, Thailand is a 3rd world country. Bangkok being fairly modern lulls you into false sense of security. So its nice to try to stay in newer or remodeled hotels or apartments or condos. Hopefully they are up to code and modern. When it comes to condos, one bit of advise that I would do is, if they have rentals, stay in one to find out the good and bad of the units. Thin walls or bad plumbing, poor construction, etc.
He seems like he can't be trusted at all. First of all don't put you life on the line for any man, your life is worth more than that. Anyway, maybe you should tell him to go see a therapist, both of you for that matter, being a sex addict is a need to get counseling. If you feel a therapist is not needed you may need to take you son and get out of this situation. Beside the fact you've thought about killing yourself for this man, he's done this on numerous occasions and he knows if he throws this sad sob story / apology you'll take him back. Please leave, you deserve to be happy that way you can be the mother you need to be for your sonGood Luck God Bless!!!
