it looks wierd but i don't care which way it goes so long as it picks a way, any ideas on how i can get it straight or wavy without heat cuz i don't wanna damage it
I think you might be overlooking the obvious(I'm not talking about the cigarette).
Is that a cigarette in your avatar? There's your problem.
Quit smokingThat will help your sore throat.
Anyone foolish enough to get under the covers with Barney Frank or Bill Clinton, without their clothes, will be happy if the only thing sore, after they wake up, is just their throat.
If you want it all straight, just invest in a good quality flat iron, and some thermal protectant spray to use on each section as you flat ironI use a Sedu 1.5 flat iron, and it's awesomeThis iron has fully ceramic plates that will make your hair super straight AND super shinyThis iron causes very little damage, especially if you can use it on a lower heat setting, rather than the max setting of 410 degreesThe thermal protectant spray will help protect your hair from heat damage, and help the straightening processYou can also try to blowdry your hair straight, but that can be time-consumingI prefer to blowdry mine as quickly as possible, then smooth out the waves with a flat iron.