4 stick, 4 staff, how to engage in a long time? Don't understand. Put up, who know how to install, teach a, eager to take pictures with it.
But if you are not 4 Softboxes tray support interface, then you are not four angle softboxes.
Suggest that you first look at the tray Softboxes (that is, the disc in the bayonet on the lamp bracket) has several interface above, if it is 4, then you will see the 4 long 4 short length can support phase, pick out after 4 longer support, and then put them on the tray in the right to see whether (mainly try lamp size is appropriate) the rest should be very simple, suitable size, then the first shade note 4 angles to wear on the soft cloth inner bracket, then (that is pure white) on the last piece of cloth with soft outer edge (general is the black side), according to the lamp mount to the lamp.
The installation method Softboxes first I to your problems puzzling the same as you.