What do you do on a first date to leave a lasting impression?
My husband has walked out on me a couple times too. I've begged and pleaded, etc., etc. Do you know what I've come to realize? This is one more dysfunctional household!! And, I don't want to live in this or like this anymore. I see what it's done and doing to me, and I see what it's doing and done to his kids. Mine left. She's almost 23, and she won't even come home because of him. And, all these things he's doing to you - texting, coming to the door, calling, etc. That's nothing but him trying to control you. You can actually call the police and have a restraining order put against him and make him stop that crap! And, if he does any of it again, you can have him arrested. Remember, this was HIS choice to leave you. Not your choice. So, let it be YOUR choice that he stays away. You don't need that turmoil in your life. And, believe me, neither do the kids. I was once one of those kidsone who witnessed and experienced first hand that and much worse. It's a wonder that I am alive or even sane. You don't want to put your children through that. If you don't get this man TOTALLY out of your life for any other reason, do it for your children. Think of them. Put them second, God first in your life, and you will find the strength that you need. You made a promise to your children - PLEASE make sure you keep that promise - NO MATTER what happens, PLEASE make sure you keep your promise to them, and go to church tomorrow. Please add me to your contact list and feel free to e-mail me anytime. I tried, but could not add you to mine. You're in my prayers
Any man that makes you feel empty is not worth your tears! I am getting out of my marriage of 24 years because of verbal and mental abuse and infidelity! Sometimes I still feel lonely and sad, but I just think of all the bad times and how he made me feel and I suddenly feel better! I'm not saying it is easy because it is not! One of these days you will surprise yourself and tell him there is no room for you here anymore! You just have to fight these feelings you have and go on! Spend time with your kids, go to church. Be happy! Don't waste time crying over him and let the time you have left with your children get away from you! They will be grown and gone before you know it! Now, take a deep breath and say I am strong and I don't need that a$$, and I will be fine Hugs!!
There's nothing you can do hun. Sadly, I've lost some people close to me who were like family because I spent more time at their house than my own and I never forget the times we had together. All you can do is keep his spirit alive and let him be your angel. You'll be surprised at what can happen. I went to my friend's grave and was talking to him about my problems and started crying at the memories and a big gush of wind blew and dried my tears, I knew it was him letting me know he was there with me then and that everything would be ok. If you need to talk you can feel free to message me :)
hmmmm.. probably the USA, because, apart from england, they have the most players in their squad that i've heard of (howard, beasley, edu and altidore- i know. get me lol), i would've supported france (not quite as much as a scotsman in a kilt but frenchman are pretty fit) but they couldnt keep their hands to themselves (i was actually rooting for the rep of ireland after scotland were out grr it's been a bad campaign) so it's USA or italy like last year or brazil like the time before that but really.. A.B.E and i'll be happy lol D bonus q- levein has impressed me more than i thought he would, he knows the right team, has given players a fresh start (we need boyd etc in the side and are too thin and bare without him), he got the win against the czech rep and has been much more promising than burley. with the addition of promising youngsters (thomson-hearts, wilson- rangers, cairney- hull, etc) coming through the ranks, showing quality and improving older players in the push for places, we can only improve on what has been a dismal few years for the side and hopefully qualify for euro and beyond. ahh now i'm dreamin )
