2- In a day of 55° which clothes to wear? a jacket?3-Will the 2 witnesses wearing military clothes?
For some reason both men and women tend to gain weight after marriage. Perhaps being married takes away for activity and exercise time or perhaps the home cooked meals provide for more eating opportunities than the single and eating on the run life style does. No matter what the reason more people gain weight after marriage than don't. In a good marriage both parties should try to negate the weight gain if for no other reason than to stay as attractive for your spouse as possible, but it should also be to a point where you are together for love first and then physical attraction. If the physical attractivness diminishes and that alone can negate love then was ever love to begin with?
Well, kudos to you for attempting to do something about your weight. If your husband make remarks about fat chicks, he doesn't see you as fat. Sure my wife gained some weight, but I'm fine with that. Just don't let your weight get out of hand, forget the husband, think health. Good luck with the Martial Arts-
My boyfriend and I have both gained some weight, too, and I think it's normal for that to happen when you move in together and start getting comfortable. He's gained a considerable amount more than I have, and although he's not worried about his weight, I'm very much worried about mine. I think it's just a woman thing. We worry about our bodies a lot more than men do. If your husband likes the way you look, maybe you really shouldn't be worried about it.
In the uk nothing it's in with your rates but i doubt if you would be charged
