I have a work colleague who lives not to far from me. They used to catch public transport to and from work before i joined the company. They asked me to give them a lift home after work, and now it has become the norm. Whilst this person seems ok, they have had the nerve to ask me to pick them up on the way in (which i refused), also they now expect that i will take them home all the time. They even have the nerve to have a go at me when they had thought i left without them. They do not give me petrol money (not that i would ask), or even offered over the last few months. They also wait around after work on purpose when i stay late. What would u do in my situation? I don‘t mind this person, but do believe they are taking advantage of a free ride!!
Keeping it in the red zone wont hurt the tranny. It will kill your engine though.
Well I have done similar things and here is my take on it. I am a decent person i give a person a free ride or two if they need it everyone needs a ride from time to time vehicle inspection in the shop etc. But this person is making it a regular thing and really they should pay something towards your cost. Ask them to for a small amount a portion of your cost. I was charging 30 dollars a week for a 4 mile commute.
I don't see a problem. I offer lifts to my colleague at work on days I drive in. Of course you're not obliged to take anyone home, but it seems like a nice thing to do. However, since this issue really seems to bother you - just tell this person that you don't wish them to accompany you on your ride home. If the person has a go at you, tell them you're not obliged to provide them transport. I don't even see how petrol money (or the offer of it) is an issue. You were going to work and returning anyway and you were going to drive in anyway.