I've been searching on the internet and I find that the law varies from state to state. Some states have specific wording that tail lights must have so much red reflective material on them, which would make all clear tail lights illegal while others don't have any such wording. I wasn't able to find anything specific in Pennsylvania so if anyone knows, I would appreciate it.
The Eclipse doesn't sit low enough to cause you problems. I think my wife's 04 spyder sits lower than the 4th gen cars. You do have to be careful pulling out of a driveway, especially a steep curb, but that is true with a lot of sports cars. I think it will be okay for you. These are well built cars but don't rely on the car magazines, they all hate them, just test drive it and make up your own mind.
Yelling at him isn't going to solve the problem. The fact that he is trying to control you in the music you listen to and who you talk to is not a good sign. You have to ask him if he wants this relationship and marriage to work then he has to agree to marriage counseling. Military One Source is the best place to start and it will NOT show up on his military profile, it is confidential unless the counselor feels that there is a life in danger. If he will not agree to counseling then there is your sign that this relationship is not going to work and you need to get a divorce. JAG can't help you with a divorce, it is a civil matter so you will need to get a regular lawyer. You can request separation and then spouse as well as child support until the divorce is final. The child will be eligible for all the same benefits until he is out of the military.
