My starting place is Phoenix, Arizona USA.
you didn't make love, you had sex ! Big difference He cried, maybe from guilt, but more probably because he was scared his wife would find out. Of course he didn't spend the night with you, that would take too much explaining away to his wife Of course he looks at you longingly - you offered him sex on a plate and are happy to offer him sex again . I don't agree with some of the posts here that call you a slag .... on one level he is the one in the relationship, you are not.. but you are being naive and rather silly if you think this is going to get you anywhere..You are 31 years old, not a silly teenager who doesn't know any better. And yes if he were happy in his marriage then he wouldn't be chasing you, but maybe he is the sort who wants casual sex as and when he can find someone to give it to him.. if it wasn't you it would be someone else.. Have more respect for youself please. If nothing else, do you really want to be with someone who can treat his wife that way... down the line it may be YOU he cheats on ! For your own sake and peace of mind, forget this loser and find yourself a decent man who is free to be with you. Don't demean yourself by throwing yourself at a man, who is not free to be with you and has told you that basically it was a mistake and must never happen again.
It's personal preference. What you may like, others may not...vice versa. I don't particularly care for that sense of odd decor, either and wouldn't have anything of the sort in my home.
