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I drove by my lovers home and saw his wife gardening?

I sat in my car a few houses up and watched her planting or weeding her dumb garden.The thing that burns me up is that my lover told me his wife is gorgeous.She was anything but GORGEOUS!..She must have been 45 pounds over weight and sad looking.so now that I know what im up against im going to play my cards alot better becuase my lover has got it so good with me.why would a man lie about his wife to his mistress?

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She is looking sad because she has an a****** for a husband. You are the tramp for going out with a married guy. Do you honestly think he will be faithful to you if he isn't faithful to his wife? The guy is a piece of crap for cheating on his wife. You are no better for helping him, she is the one suffering.
Sat in your car and watched your boyfriends wife. How sad and pathetic. Why would he lie to his mistress? Because he is a liar. Anyway..........
Same reason he'd lie to his wife about his mistress. He's a liar. That, or he's ashamed of you both and only tells the truth to his other woman (or women), because you know you're not the only one, right?
Cheaters lie...that's what they do! Assume that he is lying to you and get out of the relationship before you ruin your life. When push comes to shove, he will dump you and stay with his wife. In case you didn't know, there are more important things than looks that bind a couple together. A woman who keeps his house, raises his children and tends his garden means more to him than a little thrill on the side. Years from now, when they celebrate their Golden Anniversary, you will probably be all alone with your cats.
Beauty is in the eye(s) of the beholder. What you consider overweight and sad, may be very attractive to your bf. She has something you don't, well....besides the ring. If he really wanted you, he would be with you. Keep wondering dazed and confused.....what does she have that I don't have? Whatever it is, he likes it. His wife is there to stay, while mistresses come and go. Play your cards carefully because you are replaceable. Best of luck.

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