Why do we need fire extinguishers, that's what the fire department is for?
Fire is the symbol of anger; a house is often a symbol of one's self, but her your mother also shares the house. Is your mother getting on your nerves lately? Making you angry? Someone wanting to put flooring in your room is someone who is trying to ground you or give you a good foundation in life - it's probably your mother again in another form. Bathrooms are symbols of cleansing, and the counter top is cracked, so you have not healed something yet, and I feel that it has to do with your father, as his stuff is ruined. This is a complicated, intense dream about family emotions.
mayonnaise! I'm not kidding. slather it on and wrap your head in plastic wrap for about 10-15 minutes, then shampoo/condition as usual hot oil treatments work well too, but mayo is cheaper
