alright so i love my hair.but its friedi use the flat iron everyday.at night i blow dry it and it feels all crunchyesp at the ends.but when i flat iron it, its all soft again lol.but i have breakage! and i'm trying to grow my hair out so i dont want to cut it.does any body know a good brand of hot oil/or deep conditioning?and any GREAT shampoo / conditioner for damaged breaking hair? that ACTUALLY works?!i need healthy long hair by .school starting backthank u!! lol