what type of wrench could we need to unscrew it correctly and what would be a proper way to take the bed apart . this bed is really similar to the one i have i hope the bed pic helps
If you have access to a socket wrench of the right size and configuration, it might work. Some bed bolts, though, have square heads and most socket sets work on hex heads (6-sided). As far as how to do it. remove the mattress, box spring, and slats. have a helper hold the footboard while you remove the bed bolts. Slide off the footboard and repeat with the headboard.