Okay, so maybe seatbelts or motorcycle helmets are the law in some places, but airbags, flotation devices, safety goggles, etc aren't usually. Non- fundies need not reply; if you don't trust in God for protection then your opinion probably doesn't really provide much insight into the fundie way of thinking.
In addition to everything else that's been said (which I agree with 100% - she's obviously can't be trusted to be online without supervision) you should also notify Club Penguin and let them know who the guy is and that they may have a predator on their hands.
What the heck were you thinking, mom? Cut her off all internet access, except supervised if she's doing research for homework. Period. Plus, with her already showing such proclivities, you better do some SERIOUS talking with her about sexuality, teasing, etc. You need to monitor everything she does - not only computer usage (make sure it's in the family room, and you have ALL passwords for email, everything else and CHECK them all the time), but where she is going and who she is with. Make sure her friends aren't letting her access stuff when she is with them. You need to pull in the reins, NOW. Good luck.
He , worse than club penguin), and myspace for now. She is abusing her priviledges and putting her life at risk. If she were to tell him your address she may not be here today! I'd be frightened out of my wits if she were my daughter. This is just me but I would ground her. I still don't understand because Club Penguin is for like 5 - 11 yrs old. I know many kindergarteners who go on that site, but don't do any of those things your child did. Keep me up to date! MM
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She abused your trust and the consequence is no computer - take it out of her room and put a password block on your computer so she cannot get on when you are not home. Also, tell her friends' moms/dads that your daughter is not permitted to use the computer and tell them why. Take away her cell phone if she has one. Computers and cell phones are priviledges. She will have to earn your trust back. Attitude, grades, helping around the house, and taking responsibility for breaking the rules are steps in the right direction. Requiring that she do volunteer community service will give her something to do with her spare time, and help her understand trust is precious. Perhaps a food pantry, or an animal shelter - getting involved in doing something positive builds self-esteem. It takes a community to raise children these days. Secrets hurt and for her safety (and your familiy if this man decides to come to your home) - open communication with friends and family will protect your daughter, and your family. Your daughter may be miffed with you now, yet she will thank you later for loving her enough to hold her accountable for her choices. Good luck!
