When ever I see Mexican military on the TV they're wearing these masks. What's the purpose of them? I mean they seem really impractical especially for a place with Mexico's climate. I heard that it's to protect their identity but could Narcos really be able to get information based on just your face?
Using surveillance on a spouse? Throwing remotes and slamming doors would show anger but you have a right to be angry. Your children have a right to grow up in a happy home. This guy sounds like a control freak - see if your town has a women's shelter - call them and ask for advice. I'll bet they'll tell you to run! Try to get the location of the storage locker and the p.o. box number before you leave.
You have two choices: stay or leave. It's that simple. You cannot change another person and it appears that he is quite unwilling to change for you. Then the answer is simple - leave the marriage. Get an attorney now and seek his/her counsel for how to proceed. You will have to gather all your financial data and perhaps more. Everyday that you stay is your choice to stay. Do not put this on your husband. It's all your choice.
I actually knew a woman that had a husband just like yours. Her husband was a influential business man and was friends with judges and lawyers. So what she did was go to another town and asked an attorney there if he knew her husband? The attorney said, Nope. Never heard of the man. She hired him, got a divorce and they wiped her ex husband out. He was court ordered to pay her $100,000 in 30 days or the state they lived in would take his business. He paid her and ended up losing his buisness. She got all his valuables, rental properties and both of his cars. He was left a poor broken little man. Serves him right for the way he treated his wife. You need to hire an attorney like that.
Spray with wasp spray. Done. It the quickest easiest way.
