I really like oral sex, however my wife will only ocassionally perform it on me even though she knows how much I like it. I guess I was spoiled by women in my past before I was married who would do it all the time, and my wife wont. What can I do?
Well, from what i hear from men is that they love to go down on women, but some women dont like to go down on men for various reasons like it doesn't smell great down there or it hurts my neck. Well you women who say this, it dosent always smell great on your end but we do it to make sure you are happy. FYI, all us men try to do is make you happy, and I have been all over the world and I have never talked to a men who cheated on his wife when he got BJ's everyday. Dont be pissed, I didnt make the rules, its how it is. Wonder why guys cheat.
Wash the dishes, do the laundry of course with your member hanging out. Basically it's like pay as you go or The Barter System
Have you asked her what it is that she doesn't like about doing it? Let her know that you are prepared for some honest criticism and then really take heart to what she says. There are some great suggestions posted about ways to make it easier for her (the hypnosis thing made me giggle with visions of boyfriends/husbands trying to reprogram their women to go down!). Communication is really the key. After reading one of your other questions I just thought I might add that you should consider getting her a Bullitt vibrator. It's small, has a remote so you can control the intensity while she is down on you. That way there is something in it for her as well!
