I will probably be deployed with the military in the close future, and I have to give a relative the power of attoney for my children. If he's got the power of attoney, can he go to banks, get credit cards, loans, and everything on my name? I don't want him to
Draw up a Special Power of Attorney. It is a different form which you can specify what can and cannot be done. Best if you have an attorney prepare that because the attorney can prompt some important issues that you may not have thought of before. Plus the wordings will be much clearer.
Yes, you can get a special power of attorney. Why doesn't your JAG office handle this for you?
Yes, you can make a special purpose power of attorney. Go see a lawyer to make sure you get it done right. It shouldn't cost very much, but will give you peace of mind.