Look, I'm 14 guy, I'm 112 pounds and I have very low self-esteem and its very awkward to take my shirt off (when at friend's house for pool, beach, etc)Since I was little, sports were never my motivationIn my country, if you don't know how to play soccer (or at least have a decent looking body) you are bound to be a rejectSo my goal is to lose weight (specially tummy and legs) so I stop trying to avoid mirrors and try to boost my self-esteem a bit in the 2 months of vacationFor 2 weeks now I've been using a walker in home about 3-4 times a week 30-60 minutes a day and a vibration training machine (look it up)My family keeps saying im thin, but I know its just try to boost my self-esteem but doesn't work cuz I seriously see myself in the mirror and my big tummy and man boobs don't help.soo any advice (diet is no problem cuz the reason I'm fat is becuz i don't excerciseIm really not a fan of food or candyI only eat cuz I have to)NOTE: Don't because im 112 pounds is fine because seriously I'm fat.
Girl Talk(if they even still make that game, it's a board game, you can probably find it at Target) Mad Gab (super funny tongue twister game) Truth or Dare is a classicPictionaryScene-It
You can always gather all the mattresses, blankets, and pillows, and build a HUGE Fort with all of it, and camp out in that, to make it an all night gameThere is Bored games(tend to get old)
How about a 'best balloon animal' contestYou can get packages of balloons that have instructions on them for how to make stuffLet them have the kitchen and bake something especially fatteningOrganize a treasure hunt around your house and yardThe 'treasure' can be anythingThey can either keep what they find or win a prize for finding itPrizes can be small party favorsMake up clues for along the wayOrganize the girls into teams Let them do a runway modeling show and record it on their digital cameraDig out your craziest old clothes, or borrow some from your own mother That's all I can think of for nowHope this helps.
For being 14 years old and 112 lbs, you don't need to lose weightOften times people will look in the mirror and see themselves as ugly or at the least, not desirableThis is a bad habit, because that's often what can lower self-esteemAlso, when you are not using a muscle, it can look like fatI think what you need is to just do more exercise/sportsYou are a good weight, but your muscles might not be that strong, leading them to be more looseJust do any type of exercise that you canIf there is an option of the elevator or stairs, choose stairsBe more active in generalI personally could care less about a person if they reject me because I don't have the right bodyThey just make my self-esteem even lower.
