why cant they just use a fire extinguisher? would it not be quicker to use a fire extinguisher. than use water?
Nothingwhat your BF does is file for divorce himself or at least seek legal counsel to find out how to move the divorce to it's proper conclusion-he also has to tell her in no uncertain terms that they as a couple are OVER-sounds like he leading her on somehowmaybe it stokes his ego that his Ex wants him back? he needs to refuse her advances and ignore her nonsense.
im in a simualar situation myself, at the start of our relationship his ex used to send silly texts about the washing machine other stupid things, he just text her back saying i dont know or he will say dont contact me if it does not concern our children, eventually she got the message. he is quite blunt doesnt encourage it, he chooses to do his own thing when it comes to birthdays/christmas its more fair on the children as they pick up on negative energy etc what works for one person doesnt work for everyone. i think you was right to text what you said. if i was you i would speak to your boyfriend tell him how you are feeling, i dont think its acceptable that she is making you feel uncomfortable.
I forgot to mention that they are in fact divorced. This woman wanted the divorce and then my bf had to pay to file the papers because she didn't have the money. However she kept his last name.
I have the ex from hell! His ex was constantly texting him. lying to him (she even had a fake car accident he had to go help her with). I have always been very nice to her, makes me feel better about myself than if I treat her rudely. The kids will always be there. They will always have communication. You can't make him stop having contact with her. He has to be the one to do that. When he gets tired of it he will stop responding. her happy Valentines Day texts go unanswered, her FB posts aren't responded to, her phone calls go to voice mail and he can decide how he wants to handle them. Like many ex's she probably still thinks he's hers and is jealous of you even though she was the one who cheated. Part of it is probably her guilty feelings. That's what I did so I understand her feelings. I didn't cheat but still felt like if only I had not done this the divorce wouldn't have happened. He was the cheater! Big deal to those who say hes still married, you're an adulterer. As long as hes got the paper work started hes separated and YOU had nothing to do with the breakup. hes got to be the one to handle it though, not you. Good luck.
It really depends ond your area. You can look it up on the internet and maybe call some local businesses for that.
